Coach Jeroen: "Pressure is not the enemy. Unregulated physiology is."
Jeroen is a performance coach and breathing therapist from the Netherlands, working under the banner Natuurlijk Mentaal. Where a lot of mental-toughness advice stays abstract, Jeroen's approach starts in the body — what's actually happening physiologically under pressure, and how to train that system directly instead of trying to think your way through it.
When you are under extreme pressure, your sympathetic nervous system activates. Heart rate rises, breathing speeds up, muscle tone increases and your field of vision narrows. Blood flow shifts toward large muscle groups while activity in the prefrontal cortex — responsible for decision-making and impulse control — can temporarily decrease.
The problem is not activation. The problem is losing regulation. When breathing becomes rapid and shallow, CO2 levels drop too far, which can increase anxiety, reduce fine motor control and impair cognitive clarity. Train breath control under load and you train access to clarity under stress.
The biggest misconception about mental strength is that it means being unshakeable. Real mental strength is not the absence of stress. It is the ability to experience stress without being owned by it. Emotions are signals, not commands. The strongest performers do not suppress tension — they notice it, regulate it and stay task-focused.
Calm is not something you practice in perfect conditions. You build it inside elevated heart rate, muscle fatigue and decision pressure. You extend the exhale to stimulate vagal tone. You maintain nasal breathing during effort to support CO2 tolerance and oxygen efficiency. You expose yourself to controlled stress, like thermal stressors. Over time, the nervous system learns that high activation does not equal loss of control. Calm becomes trained access, not accidental luck.
In high performers, over-breathing under pressure is common. Faster, higher chest breathing. Mouth open. Shoulders lifting. When breathing becomes excessive relative to metabolic demand, CO2 drops and oxygen delivery efficiency decreases due to the Bohr effect. This is physiology, not mindset. The shift is simple and powerful: slower, deeper, more controlled breathing with longer exhales.
When performance drops, it is often rooted in physical dysregulation first — sleep debt, chronic sympathetic dominance, poor recovery, dysfunctional breathing patterns. That state affects focus, emotional control and confidence. Then identity stories layer on top: "I always have to deliver." "I cannot fail." But if the nervous system remains in threat mode, cognitive strategies alone are not enough.
If one daily habit dramatically improves performance under pressure, it is a short, consistent morning routine: intentional breathing to set rhythm, light movement to activate circulation, and a brief cold exposure to create controlled stress and immediate recovery. This combination trains stress tolerance and recovery capacity in minutes. Done daily, it compounds.